Firstly I have to point out is I do not know this person !
Your not the only person that feels like that ! Some people either prejudge you are have for one reason or another misjudged you. It is hard to get some people to understand that although they see your help as interfering you believe you are trying to help them and be friendly. So you try harder and hope that they understand and when they still twist your action it does hurt, but some people really don't want your help although they still want a friend !?
Have you explained what your actions and how there action make you feel maybe they do understand your actions ? You may feel it's not your fault but theirs which may not be helping your problem maybe it's both of you, try to think how the feel about your actions and how they see them ? Try to talk to each one on their own maybe that way you can talk freely to each other and clear the air and the problems between you ? You may even find the problem isn't as big as you thought ?
Don't get upset, if they are being nasty to you that's what they want to see. If they are just misunderstanding you then you should have to feel upset ?
If you want someone to chat to you are welcome to email me, believe me I know how your feeling ?
